Assertiveness or aggrssion?

Assertiveness or aggrssion?

From time to time I get so fed up with being bullied and pushed
around by people with power or who think they have power that
just for my own mental health I have to push back.

Since $290 is not really the issue, and would not be worth my
time and effort to pursue I am not going to file any charges in
small claims court. But I want you to be very clear about this,
It is not because of your threat. It is that kind of threat that would usually push me to go ahead and file against you just on principle.

I know and you know you suffered no damages. I know and you
know that I know that you were dishonest. My not believing y you
has nothing to do with whether I trust Arizona Retirement. That
logic and reasoning is non sequetor.

If you compare your letters there are so many inconsistencies
that you would never stand up even in a mini court. The letters
also show the disorganization of your own office in that you
didn't even have a contract, there was no paper work which would
have had a phone number or contact number, and the whole thing
about the dates of your bill. As you well know, I sent the check
by return mail when I received the billing from you, which was
what we had agreed to on the phone because I needed an exact
amount to fill in my check.

It is this sort of thing in general that is the impetus for all
the lawyer jokes. It's not the big cases, the ambulance chasing
or getting criminals off, nearly as much as the continual
harassment and taking advantage of the smaller clients, knowing
that the amount in dispute is less than most people are willing
to squabble about. When attorneys’ push it to the limits of ethics
they are following our president’s example, with "Clintonese
style reasoning and wording.

I just want you to know I don't appreciate your misguided
efforts to bully me. It would have been so much better had you
used that skill in your initial letter to Arizona, which came out
rather careless and bland.
Posted by LoLyn at 3:42 AM
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